How to solve friendship issues

 Hey it’s Jess again, sorry this post is late it’s because I am away this week and the Wi-Fi isn’t very     good but now I have some I can write, this blog is about how to solve friendship problems. I’m going  to list some common problems and answer them in a much detail as I can.

 1.      My best friends keeps leaving me for other people and won’t tell me she just leaves.

 -         Well first of all you have to realise she can have other friends than just you so make sure you          don’t take her away from them

  -         Talk to her about it face to face and just ask her if she can tell you before she goes, so your not  left  alone waiting.

  -         Ask if you can come, she might say no but just say ok because there might be a certain reason she doesn’t want you to.

   -        Don’t get into a argument about it because its really silly, this happened to a group of my friends  at school and they all got into a massive argument over nothing

 2.    My friend tells me she is busy but then I find out she made plans with others

  -        Make sure she is aware of what she doing

  -        Let her know she is disappointing you

  -        Ask her to be more reliable

 -        If this persist then you may need to dilute the friendship by seeing her less frequently and/or relying on more reliable friends

 3.    You cant stand your friends boyfriend

 -       It’s her partner not yours and you don’t have to like him

 -       If you don’t like her choice try and find ways to spend time with each other without him

 -       Tell her how you feel but don’t try and talk her out of the way she feels

 -       However if you think her choice is self-destructive, let her know that and try to be there for her

 4.    You and your friend where attached at the hip and now you have nothing to say to each other

 -       Your lives may have become so divergent that your friendship isn’t what it once was

 -       Friendships have there ups and downs and some of them last forever see if you can figure it out by talking about it

 -       If it’s a matter of you, her or both of you have changed then try and keep a more distant connection without cutting of the friendship completely.

 5.    You feel like your being left out from a group of others

  -       This can feel quite painful, but try and talk to one or more of the group members to see if you can maintain a good relationship with her (or them) away from the group

       Hope this is helpful and I will speak to you this sunday hopefully 

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